I want address two very important and immensely practical things: how to avoid sin and how to overcome sin. But first, we need to put sin in its correct context in the scheme of salvation. You’ve heard it many times before, but it bears repeating that we can do nothing to earn our salvation. No matter how good we are, we can never be good enough to merit heaven. If we approach the vital question of salvation and try to answer it with a list of good deeds, we are going to be in trouble. This is one of the favorite themes of St. Paul: righteousness can never be wrested from deeds alone, otherwise there would have been no need for the Incarnation, Life, Passion, Resurrection, and Ascension of our Lord. The whole point of the law, as St. Paul reminds us in the Epistle to the Romans, was to show that no one could keep it, not so that men would despair of their salvation, but so that men would recognize their need for the Savior.
Heaven is not our reward for good behavior; heaven is not our reward for anything. Heaven is the result of our joining ourselves, through faith, with the life, death, and resurrection of Christ. And yet it is not true that our actions or inactions have no relation at all to our spiritual state. Grace comes first: “And this I say, that the covenant, that was confirmed before of God in Christ, the law, which was four hundred and thirty years after, cannot disannul, that it should make the promise of none effect” (Gal. 3:17). The promise comes before the law; grace also comes during our actions, and after them. Grace is God’s uncreated energy working for our salvation, and grace comes first and last, and our works are merely our cooperation with grace. We can’t provide ourselves with grace, we can’t earn it; but we can turn away from it, close up the channels of grace by sin, and ultimately alienate ourselves from grace and from God who is the Source of grace.
It follows that we need to pay attention to our spiritual lives. The Christian life is not a flight on autopilot, but a pilgrimage on foot, one we have to undertake anew with each step, and one with many obstacles, many distractions, and many false turnings. We can’t simply assume we’re progressing as we ought to. We need to learn to identify sin in our lives, to avoid it, and to overcome it. Two great helps in this regard are confession and spiritual direction, but surprisingly, these are things we don’t talk about much.
Let’s look first at the question of sacramental confession. The proper name for this is the Sacrament of Penance, though it’s commonly called simply “confession”. As in all his priestly acts, the priest does not act in the Sacrament of Penance in his own right, but in the place of Christ and through his authority. The penitent making his confession is speaking to the priest, but his words are addressed to God. And the priest does not forgive the penitent his sins, but pronounces God’s absolution on behalf of Christ. God forgives the sins of the penitent; the priest’s words, “I absolve thee” constitute the vehicle for the grace of the sacrament, and they are spoken on God’s behalf. As such, the Sacrament of Penance is extremely comforting, and it removes any doubt as to our spiritual state, for the sacrament remits all sins and restores us to the state of grace we enjoyed at the moment of our baptism. It also gives us grace to overcome sin and to grow in the life of Christ. Sacramental confession, though, is not the only way we can receive forgiveness of sins. Baptized persons can be forgiven even the most serious sins by making an act of true contrition and repentance, and when we do this, we’re forgiven even without using the Sacrament of Penance. We need to be clear about this, but more on this later.
Now, the Anglican Catholic Church is a bit different from, say, the Roman Catholic Church when it comes to these matters. Regarding the Sacrament of Penance, Canon 989 of the Roman Code of Canon law puts it this way: “After having attained the age of discretion, each of the faithful is bound by an obligation faithfully to confess serious sins at least once a year”. The ACC canons contain no such requirement. Of course, there’s no rite for sacramental confession in the Prayer Book, but this is because the Prayer Book is a book of “common” or public prayer, and Penance is a private rite. Still, the supposed silence of the Prayer Book and the lack of external compulsion give many of the faithful the idea that confession isn’t important.
I say the “supposed” silence of the Prayer Book, because the writers of the Prayer Book simply assume that priests will be available for the Sacrament of Penance when necessary. The second of the Exhortations directs any who cannot quiet his conscience by means of private self-examination to see a priest and to “open his grief; that he may receive such godly counsel and advice, as may tend to the quieting of his conscience, and the removing of all scruple and doubtfulness” (p.88). Moreover, the Order for Visitation of the Sick directs that the “sick person be moved to make a special confession of his sins” (p.313). And most importantly, the Prayer Book rite for ordaining priests requires the bishop to lay hands upon the candidate, and using the words that Christ said to the Apostles, to say, “Receive the Holy Ghost for the Office and Work of a Priest in the Church of God, now committed unto thee by the imposition of our hands. Whose sins thou dost forgive, they are forgiven; and whose sins thou dost retain, they are retained” (p.546). So while the Prayer Book has no rite for the Sacrament of Penance, it simply assumes that the Sacrament is available, and that the people will have recourse to it. Our Canons assume the same, and Canon 12.5 of the ACC sets forth the requirements for those priests who hear confessions, but there is no minimum requirement regarding the number and frequency of confession as there is in the Roman canons.
The difference between our scheme and the Roman Catholic one is that the onus in our Church is laid upon the individual to make his confession, rather than upon the hierarchy to enforce confession. I said earlier that an act of perfect contrition and repentance will do the same thing as sacramental confession. I think many people rely upon this fact to minimize the role of confession. Many people also make the mistake of seeing the General Confession in the Mass as a substitute for the Sacrament of Penance, but the teaching of the Church is that this is not the case. From a technical theological standpoint, the General Confession alone, said with faith and repentance, will remit less serious sins (also called “venial sins”), but it does not remit serious sins (sometimes called “mortal sins”), unless it is accompanied by true contrition. I don’t want to address here the differences between the Roman teaching, on the one hand, and the Orthodox on the other regarding the difference between serious and less serious sin. There are Anglican Catholics who lean toward either emphasis, and many who probably don’t think about the question at all. The point I want to make is that the General Confession is a supplement to, and not a substitute for, sacramental confession, though many neglect the latter because of the former.
Two considerations follow, however. First, if the General Confession can be relied upon to remit less serious sins, how are we to be sure which of our sins are less serious and which are more serious? Sin is sin, certainly, but Scripture and the clear teaching of the Church hold that some sins are, from a practical standpoint, more damaging to us than others. Some sins are so serious that they endanger the very spiritual life upon which we rely for our salvation, and these sins are not always apparent to us if we are not engaging in systematic self-examination. We tend to think the most serious sins are the more spectacular ones, but in fact, the most serious sins are the most insidious and invisible ones: pride and envy, for example. The more visible sins, like murder or adultery or theft, are all preceded and made possible by an interior disposition which grew, in all likelihood, mostly unheeded by the person who later committed the acts. All sins, great and small, grow out of an interior turning-away from God. How are we to weigh and discern the spiritual virulence of our many sins?
The second consideration is that if even serious sin can be forgiven by making an act of perfect contrition and repentance, how can we be sure if we have made such an act? When much is at stake, it’s always best not to rely upon our own understanding. We are never the best judges of our own spiritual states and interior dispositions; St. Paul tells us that we tend either to be too hard or too easy on ourselves. This is where spiritual direction comes into play. A spiritual director can tell us when we need sacramental confession, and can help us evaluate the state of our spiritual life. I spoke about the Sacrament of Penance first because most folks making their confession will receive, not only absolution, but advice and counsel. Spiritual direction is part and parcel of the relationship between confessor and penitent. Yet spiritual direction can be had apart from sacramental confession, and anyone who is serious about growing spiritually will want to give serious consideration to finding a spiritual director. Unlike a confessor, who must be a priest, a spiritual director can be any baptized person who has some spiritual discernment and understanding. Some of the greatest spiritual directors have been women, such as St. Theresa of Avila or Evelyn Underhill. Spiritual direction and confession are related, however, because it would be a very rare instance in which spiritual direction did not lead to a recommendation for more frequent confession.
I must be honest and admit that it is not easy in our Church to make one’s confession. Many of our parishes don’t have resident clergy who can hear confessions, and not all priests in our Church are licensed to hear confessions. Still, inconvenience isn’t the same as impossibility; for instance, the Bishop visits all parishes in the diocese at least once a year, and he, of course, can hear confessions. And many of our clergy are able to hear confessions, as well. I’m not here to tell you that you need to make your confession any particular number of times per year, because the Church doesn’t lay that responsibility upon you; I am, however, more and more convinced that it is very hard to make progress in the spiritual life without the benefit of spiritual direction and confession. Spiritual direction in particular is not so hard to come by: as I said earlier, your spiritual director doesn’t have to be a clergyman, and communication can be in person, by phone, by letter, or by email. Having a spiritual director is something available to everyone, and something which will immediately pay off in terms of spiritual progress.
Spiritual direction and confession are important for finding your way, charting your course, and avoiding pitfalls and detours. The spiritual life is not something to be neglected. Anyone with money to invest would be thought a fool if he merely left his investments untended; first of all, he has to choose carefully where to invest, and then he has to keep any eye on what he’s done. And we’re all aware of the need to check with our doctors on a regular basis and to get some idea of the state of our health. We don’t just do this so the doctor can buy a new BMW: there are diseases which can creep up on us without any outward signs, and there are conditions which can get out of hand without proper oversight and care. It is no different with our souls. If we put this much care into what will not last forever, why shouldn’t we put at least as much care into what will last forever? When was the last time you sat down and made a full and frank evaluation of the state of your spiritual life? Do you know where you are on the road, or are you just wandering? Are you keeping an eye on incipient dangers, and looking out for the less-than-obvious pitfalls? Are you on guard against the great dangers of spiritual illusion and self-delusion? Spiritual direction and confession, taken together or separately, are your great safeguards.
The lawyer in St. Luke’s Gospel knew the right answer to how to have eternal life: “...love the Lord thy God with all thy heart, and with all thy soul, and with all thy strength, and with all thy mind; and thy neighbor as thyself” (Lk 10:27), but as the rest of his conversation showed, and the rest of the New Testament makes clear, this is not something we can do on our own. “This do, and thou shalt live”, Christ said, and I think he must have been smiling, because he was setting the lawyer an impossible task, impossible at least without the aid of Christ, but the lawyer didn’t see his need. He was, we are told, “willing to justify himself”, which is something none of us can do. We must have grace, and spiritual direction and confession are two keys to ensuring that we are always open to the operations of grace, and that we are doing nothing to hinder its work in us. We are not of course interested in spiritual progress for its own sake, but because the goal of our progress is loving union with the Holy Trinity. Each step on the journey brings us more and more fully into loving communion with God himself; each mis-step robs us, to a greater or lesser degree, of that communion. “This do, and thou shalt live.” We can be comforted and cheered by the knowledge that God earnestly desires our salvation, earnestly desires to know us, that He makes possible for us what would be impossible without Him and that He has provided us with the means to grow in that loving knowledge of Him which, both now and in the life of the world to come, is the fulness of heaven.
Heaven is not our reward for good behavior; heaven is not our reward for anything. Heaven is the result of our joining ourselves, through faith, with the life, death, and resurrection of Christ. And yet it is not true that our actions or inactions have no relation at all to our spiritual state. Grace comes first: “And this I say, that the covenant, that was confirmed before of God in Christ, the law, which was four hundred and thirty years after, cannot disannul, that it should make the promise of none effect” (Gal. 3:17). The promise comes before the law; grace also comes during our actions, and after them. Grace is God’s uncreated energy working for our salvation, and grace comes first and last, and our works are merely our cooperation with grace. We can’t provide ourselves with grace, we can’t earn it; but we can turn away from it, close up the channels of grace by sin, and ultimately alienate ourselves from grace and from God who is the Source of grace.
It follows that we need to pay attention to our spiritual lives. The Christian life is not a flight on autopilot, but a pilgrimage on foot, one we have to undertake anew with each step, and one with many obstacles, many distractions, and many false turnings. We can’t simply assume we’re progressing as we ought to. We need to learn to identify sin in our lives, to avoid it, and to overcome it. Two great helps in this regard are confession and spiritual direction, but surprisingly, these are things we don’t talk about much.
Let’s look first at the question of sacramental confession. The proper name for this is the Sacrament of Penance, though it’s commonly called simply “confession”. As in all his priestly acts, the priest does not act in the Sacrament of Penance in his own right, but in the place of Christ and through his authority. The penitent making his confession is speaking to the priest, but his words are addressed to God. And the priest does not forgive the penitent his sins, but pronounces God’s absolution on behalf of Christ. God forgives the sins of the penitent; the priest’s words, “I absolve thee” constitute the vehicle for the grace of the sacrament, and they are spoken on God’s behalf. As such, the Sacrament of Penance is extremely comforting, and it removes any doubt as to our spiritual state, for the sacrament remits all sins and restores us to the state of grace we enjoyed at the moment of our baptism. It also gives us grace to overcome sin and to grow in the life of Christ. Sacramental confession, though, is not the only way we can receive forgiveness of sins. Baptized persons can be forgiven even the most serious sins by making an act of true contrition and repentance, and when we do this, we’re forgiven even without using the Sacrament of Penance. We need to be clear about this, but more on this later.
Now, the Anglican Catholic Church is a bit different from, say, the Roman Catholic Church when it comes to these matters. Regarding the Sacrament of Penance, Canon 989 of the Roman Code of Canon law puts it this way: “After having attained the age of discretion, each of the faithful is bound by an obligation faithfully to confess serious sins at least once a year”. The ACC canons contain no such requirement. Of course, there’s no rite for sacramental confession in the Prayer Book, but this is because the Prayer Book is a book of “common” or public prayer, and Penance is a private rite. Still, the supposed silence of the Prayer Book and the lack of external compulsion give many of the faithful the idea that confession isn’t important.
I say the “supposed” silence of the Prayer Book, because the writers of the Prayer Book simply assume that priests will be available for the Sacrament of Penance when necessary. The second of the Exhortations directs any who cannot quiet his conscience by means of private self-examination to see a priest and to “open his grief; that he may receive such godly counsel and advice, as may tend to the quieting of his conscience, and the removing of all scruple and doubtfulness” (p.88). Moreover, the Order for Visitation of the Sick directs that the “sick person be moved to make a special confession of his sins” (p.313). And most importantly, the Prayer Book rite for ordaining priests requires the bishop to lay hands upon the candidate, and using the words that Christ said to the Apostles, to say, “Receive the Holy Ghost for the Office and Work of a Priest in the Church of God, now committed unto thee by the imposition of our hands. Whose sins thou dost forgive, they are forgiven; and whose sins thou dost retain, they are retained” (p.546). So while the Prayer Book has no rite for the Sacrament of Penance, it simply assumes that the Sacrament is available, and that the people will have recourse to it. Our Canons assume the same, and Canon 12.5 of the ACC sets forth the requirements for those priests who hear confessions, but there is no minimum requirement regarding the number and frequency of confession as there is in the Roman canons.
The difference between our scheme and the Roman Catholic one is that the onus in our Church is laid upon the individual to make his confession, rather than upon the hierarchy to enforce confession. I said earlier that an act of perfect contrition and repentance will do the same thing as sacramental confession. I think many people rely upon this fact to minimize the role of confession. Many people also make the mistake of seeing the General Confession in the Mass as a substitute for the Sacrament of Penance, but the teaching of the Church is that this is not the case. From a technical theological standpoint, the General Confession alone, said with faith and repentance, will remit less serious sins (also called “venial sins”), but it does not remit serious sins (sometimes called “mortal sins”), unless it is accompanied by true contrition. I don’t want to address here the differences between the Roman teaching, on the one hand, and the Orthodox on the other regarding the difference between serious and less serious sin. There are Anglican Catholics who lean toward either emphasis, and many who probably don’t think about the question at all. The point I want to make is that the General Confession is a supplement to, and not a substitute for, sacramental confession, though many neglect the latter because of the former.
Two considerations follow, however. First, if the General Confession can be relied upon to remit less serious sins, how are we to be sure which of our sins are less serious and which are more serious? Sin is sin, certainly, but Scripture and the clear teaching of the Church hold that some sins are, from a practical standpoint, more damaging to us than others. Some sins are so serious that they endanger the very spiritual life upon which we rely for our salvation, and these sins are not always apparent to us if we are not engaging in systematic self-examination. We tend to think the most serious sins are the more spectacular ones, but in fact, the most serious sins are the most insidious and invisible ones: pride and envy, for example. The more visible sins, like murder or adultery or theft, are all preceded and made possible by an interior disposition which grew, in all likelihood, mostly unheeded by the person who later committed the acts. All sins, great and small, grow out of an interior turning-away from God. How are we to weigh and discern the spiritual virulence of our many sins?
The second consideration is that if even serious sin can be forgiven by making an act of perfect contrition and repentance, how can we be sure if we have made such an act? When much is at stake, it’s always best not to rely upon our own understanding. We are never the best judges of our own spiritual states and interior dispositions; St. Paul tells us that we tend either to be too hard or too easy on ourselves. This is where spiritual direction comes into play. A spiritual director can tell us when we need sacramental confession, and can help us evaluate the state of our spiritual life. I spoke about the Sacrament of Penance first because most folks making their confession will receive, not only absolution, but advice and counsel. Spiritual direction is part and parcel of the relationship between confessor and penitent. Yet spiritual direction can be had apart from sacramental confession, and anyone who is serious about growing spiritually will want to give serious consideration to finding a spiritual director. Unlike a confessor, who must be a priest, a spiritual director can be any baptized person who has some spiritual discernment and understanding. Some of the greatest spiritual directors have been women, such as St. Theresa of Avila or Evelyn Underhill. Spiritual direction and confession are related, however, because it would be a very rare instance in which spiritual direction did not lead to a recommendation for more frequent confession.
I must be honest and admit that it is not easy in our Church to make one’s confession. Many of our parishes don’t have resident clergy who can hear confessions, and not all priests in our Church are licensed to hear confessions. Still, inconvenience isn’t the same as impossibility; for instance, the Bishop visits all parishes in the diocese at least once a year, and he, of course, can hear confessions. And many of our clergy are able to hear confessions, as well. I’m not here to tell you that you need to make your confession any particular number of times per year, because the Church doesn’t lay that responsibility upon you; I am, however, more and more convinced that it is very hard to make progress in the spiritual life without the benefit of spiritual direction and confession. Spiritual direction in particular is not so hard to come by: as I said earlier, your spiritual director doesn’t have to be a clergyman, and communication can be in person, by phone, by letter, or by email. Having a spiritual director is something available to everyone, and something which will immediately pay off in terms of spiritual progress.
Spiritual direction and confession are important for finding your way, charting your course, and avoiding pitfalls and detours. The spiritual life is not something to be neglected. Anyone with money to invest would be thought a fool if he merely left his investments untended; first of all, he has to choose carefully where to invest, and then he has to keep any eye on what he’s done. And we’re all aware of the need to check with our doctors on a regular basis and to get some idea of the state of our health. We don’t just do this so the doctor can buy a new BMW: there are diseases which can creep up on us without any outward signs, and there are conditions which can get out of hand without proper oversight and care. It is no different with our souls. If we put this much care into what will not last forever, why shouldn’t we put at least as much care into what will last forever? When was the last time you sat down and made a full and frank evaluation of the state of your spiritual life? Do you know where you are on the road, or are you just wandering? Are you keeping an eye on incipient dangers, and looking out for the less-than-obvious pitfalls? Are you on guard against the great dangers of spiritual illusion and self-delusion? Spiritual direction and confession, taken together or separately, are your great safeguards.
The lawyer in St. Luke’s Gospel knew the right answer to how to have eternal life: “...love the Lord thy God with all thy heart, and with all thy soul, and with all thy strength, and with all thy mind; and thy neighbor as thyself” (Lk 10:27), but as the rest of his conversation showed, and the rest of the New Testament makes clear, this is not something we can do on our own. “This do, and thou shalt live”, Christ said, and I think he must have been smiling, because he was setting the lawyer an impossible task, impossible at least without the aid of Christ, but the lawyer didn’t see his need. He was, we are told, “willing to justify himself”, which is something none of us can do. We must have grace, and spiritual direction and confession are two keys to ensuring that we are always open to the operations of grace, and that we are doing nothing to hinder its work in us. We are not of course interested in spiritual progress for its own sake, but because the goal of our progress is loving union with the Holy Trinity. Each step on the journey brings us more and more fully into loving communion with God himself; each mis-step robs us, to a greater or lesser degree, of that communion. “This do, and thou shalt live.” We can be comforted and cheered by the knowledge that God earnestly desires our salvation, earnestly desires to know us, that He makes possible for us what would be impossible without Him and that He has provided us with the means to grow in that loving knowledge of Him which, both now and in the life of the world to come, is the fulness of heaven.

